Bruce MacMahon for State Representative

Rockingham District 10 - Brentwood

 

 

Help me work to keep New Hampshire prosperous and free by bringing back common sense ideas and solutions that work in the best interest of The People.

 

Marriage Equality   (click here to return to the Home Page)

 

As is the case with so many of the issues facing the voters of New Hampshire today, my position on the hotly debated topic of same-sex marriage comes from my application of basic, common sense principles of responsible and representative government – the first and foremost among them being the Constitutional limits placed on the authority of government.

 

Ronald Reagan once said, “Man is not free unless government is limited.”

 

Henry David Thoreau, paraphrasing our country’s Founding Fathers, wrote, “That government is best which governs least.”

 

I agree wholeheartedly. Along those lines, with respect to same sex marriage, I ask the following question. “Is an individual’s decision to get married any of the government’s business? Does it merit intrusive governmental regulation or restriction?”

 

My answer to both questions is a resounding “No!”

 

The lack of common sense and the inconsistent arguments being put forth by partisans on both sides of the ideological divide in this discussion defy logic and continue to be a source of irritation to me to this day.

 

On one hand, we have a group of people arguing that the government is over-stepping its bounds when it attempts to dictate who can and can’t get married, and that the more “proper” role of government is to enact laws dictating such things as what kind of light bulbs or health insurance policies we should be forced to buy, what kind of car we can be allowed to drive, or how high we should be permitted to set the thermostats in our homes.

 

On the other side of the fence, we get the equally illogical and inconsistent argument calling for less government intrusion into our personal lives, as it pertains to health care, gun ownership, tobacco use, and dietary choices (to list but a few), while at the same time demanding that the government be actively involved in regulating our choice of spouse and other intimate and personal relationships.

 

The next question I’m compelled to ask is, “What is the difference between civil marriage, as defined by the State for the purposes of spousal rights and arbitrarily configured tax benefits, and Holy Matrimony as defined by the religious and/or spiritual institution of one’s choosing?”

 

Some will argue that there is no appreciable distinction between the two, and that all marriage is sacred. They will put forth the argument that allowing same-sex couples to marry will devalue marriage for all and impugn the “sanctity” of marriage between a man and a woman.

 

Sanctity of marriage exists only in the eyes of the church. A couple entering into Holy Matrimony is essentially forming a covenant between themselves and their God. It is a sacred and deeply personal bond – one that must be respected and left alone by every level of government, from town hall to Capitol Hill.

 

Like it or not, there is nothing “sacred” about civil marriage, as defined, licensed, and regulated by the State. The government does not require marriage license applicants to pledge their love to one another, nor their fidelity, their devotion to God, their intent to bear children, or even their present or future plans to cohabitate.

 

Just about the only thing “sacred” about the concept of two people getting married, as far as the State of New Hampshire is concerned, is the $45 marriage license fee.

 

The distinction, again, should be between "civil marriage" and "holy matrimony".

My position is that New Hampshire state law should allow for same-sex civil marriages, given the same conditions and restrictions applied to civil marriage for heterosexual couples. Should any religious institution decree that same-sex couples are entitled to be married in the eyes of, and with the blessing of God, then that church should be free to perform the ceremony to sanctify the civil marriage granted to that couple by the State, without interference from the State.

 

Likewise, at the other end of the spectrum, if a church takes the stand that the concept of same-sex marriage goes against their core tenets and teachings, it should be entirely acceptable in the eyes of the law for that church to refuse to perform the rite of holy matrimony for same-sex couples.

 

I was happy to see the residents of Brentwood stand together and defeat, overwhelmingly, an article presented at this year’s town meeting that would have held a person’s right to enter into the contract of civil marriage subject to majority rule. I doubt anyone would like to see our rights to speak freely, practice religion, or educate our children relegated in a similar fashion. 

 

With the growing popularity of the grassroots Tea Party movement, we’re hearing a lot of talk about getting the government to once again recognize and respect of the rights and liberty of the individual, as our Founding Fathers intended. But, to be an advocate for individual liberty is to stand up in defense of liberty for all individuals, not just those whose behavioral standards coincide with your own.

 

As your state representative, I will fight any attempt to enact legislation that seeks to paint with a broad brush a narrow set of moral values on the People. I’d no sooner legislate good eating habits than legislate one’s choice of spouse.

 

Whether we’re talking about a person’s right to get married, smoke a cigarette, carry a handgun, or eat a sugary, trans fat-laden doughnut for breakfast, I will stand up for equal rights for all New Hampshire residents. Those who seek to impose equality on some, while depriving others of the same – discrimination in the name of partisan political ideology - will gain no favor in my sight.

 

~ Bruce

 

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